Love and Marriage

I am blessed with the greatest husband! My husband has stood by me through thick and thin, in sickness and in health, and we love each other. Yet, like most relationships we have hurt each other. Every morning we pray together and this strengthens our marriage. Without God in our marriage we would never survive. I am not sure how any marriage lasts without God. A cord of three is not easily broken.
We are both working on forgiveness. How does one forgive? Here are the steps:
1. Remember the injury
2. Try to understand
3. Decide to forgive
4. Ask God to help you forgive

This is a process, not a one time event. "When we forgive, we ride the crest of love's cosmic wave; we walk in stride with God." --Lewis B. Smedes, Forgive and Forget